Surviving an Affair
by Willard F. Harley, Jr. and Jennifer Harley Chalmers
This is a unique book on affairs in that the co-authors are a father and daughter team. Both are licensed psychologists and marriage counselors.
The first half of the book is devoted to covering the general issue of affairs, and the last half is SPECIFICALLY geared toward the goal of Marital Recovery. They list and discuss a number of "Rules" to guide marital recovery, the most powerful one being the Rule of Honesty - which promotes total openness and honesty with your spouse.
This book will also appeal to those who like using checklists and questionnaires as tools in working to rebuild their marriage.